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I have never spoken to a woman : CafeDread | Torhoo darknet markets

I get NO PLAY. It's been 21 years, 1 month, 22 days and I get 0 bitches. Women don't talk to me. In high school, they were repulsed by my existence. I couldn't even form platonic relationships with women which was weird since you'd think appearance wouldn't matter but bitchless mc loser over here was wrong. I wasn't antisocial, I knew a good amount of people and had friends, but still ended up bitchless. I'm bitch repellent. Not really mad bout it tho it is what it is.
/u/boogieshoes
4 points
2 years ago
You're probably weird then. Girls got pretty good weirdo-meters.
/u/beansandcheese 📢
0 points
2 years ago
U right im a freak fr
/u/Solar M
4 points
2 years ago

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if you see women as "bitches" maybe that is why they act the way they do towards you.
/u/SeductiveCatMeow 🍼
5 points
2 years ago
Good Solar! #queen #feminism #equality
/u/beansandcheese 📢
0 points
2 years ago
Yea mb its just the venacular we use around here. I agree but there are people who are way worse that I know personally and they don't have the experience.
/u/[deleted]
3 points
2 years ago
Not really mad bout it tho

You looking for advice then? Or just here to make others feel better about themselves? ;)
/u/Zian vaginal rejuvinationist
5 points
2 years ago

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My man running on Incel Core i9
/u/lostkitten
1 points
2 years ago*
It's an old joke, but it still made me laugh
/u/beansandcheese 📢
1 points
2 years ago
Advice is welcome and seeing if people have had a similar experience.
/u/[deleted]
2 points
2 years ago
Can't say I've had a similar experience. Have you actually put effort into pursuing woman? If you have, then maybe put more effort into your appearance and demeanor, start working out, get a haircut, shave, work on your social skills. Work to your assets, pick a style that suits you and stick to it, learning what works and what doesn't. Be casual, restricted but outgoing, and semi uninterested when talking to woman, if they feel like your only reason for talking to them is to pursue them in a creepy way then things won't work out. Don't try to copy others, be your own man and find your own groove, you can make a square into a circle, but you can put a nice jacket and haircut on a square.
/u/beansandcheese 📢
1 points
2 years ago
Actually great advice, I haven't pursued any woman ever and I don't take care of my appearance at all. My problem, as self aware as I can be about something like this, isn't being creepy or weird (I don't think, I'm decently down to earth and socially aware).
/u/[deleted]
1 points
2 years ago
Then your problem is clearly your appearance, dress better, work out and get in shape, take pride in how you look. Best thing you can do for yourself is to invest time into a routine and put yourself together. Take care of your skin, teeth, smell and hygiene. Start trying different styles that suit you. Don't waste a pile of money either, go to the thrift store and buy cheap stuff until you know what works best on you. Until you get in shape (assuming you aren't) things won't fit very well so don't be discouraged, build your neck and shoulders, taper your waistline, and define your forearms and what shows below your sleeve. It doesn't take much, just recognize you want to develop yourself and put an effort in.
/u/TheOracle1
1 points
2 years ago
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/u/[deleted]
2 points
2 years ago
I'm gonna be honest man, I truly do not give a fuck. I don't mean to be harsh but this is not the place to be discussing these problems, and I don't want it to become that place. Reddit or your mother are more suited towards this type of discussion. You're still growing man, it's normal to be weird until you've found your place in the world, and it's normal to want to talk about your problems; just please do it fucking anywhere but here. If you decide you want to toss away most chances success and become a degenerate, come back and we'll welcome you with open arms.

Take my advice or don't, the only thing I can say for certain is, the world will keep moving with or without you. You can choose to keep up or stand still, but it will keep moving; it doesn't take long to find yourself on the fringe, and it's a lot harder to catch up once you're there.
/u/cthulhuskittens
1 points
2 years ago
you are seriously overthinking things. no wonder girls won't talk to you. they're human, talk to them like people.
/u/epiceliteyt
3 points
2 years ago
Reading your post and replies, I have found your answer.

Your a sad, self pitying, good for nothing loner.

"I'm bitch repellent" - Simply setting yourself up for failure if you think this of your self.
"U right im a freak fr" - Maybe your right, but you don't say that about yourself.
"I did the math wrong lol im retarded" - Seems you cant go a sentence without saying something bad about yourself, jokingly or not.
/u/beansandcheese 📢
2 points
2 years ago
U right im the mother fucking man plus *you're
/u/SeductiveCatMeow 🍼
2 points
2 years ago
You were born on Feb 11, 2002 on a Monday haha get doxed!
/u/beansandcheese 📢
1 points
2 years ago
I did the math wrong lol im retarded
/u/SeductiveCatMeow 🍼
1 points
2 years ago
St st st should've payed attention in school than pondering your though with girls
/u/biscuitofeternalcrunch
2 points
2 years ago*
Sounds like there aren't any women in your social circle. Making friends can be hard, regardless of gender. You don't just go approach a dude and become their friend, and it's the same with women. It doesn't sound like you have a mixed gender group of friends and all the women simply ignore/dislike you, and I doubt that would happen if you had such a group of friends. I wouldn't put any stock into what happened in high school, teenagers are generally assholes to each other.

If you specifically want to date, then dating apps are a really useful way to meet women. Don't expect instant results though, and be prepared for rejection. Easier said than done. When I was your age I had some female friends but was awkward af when it came to flirting/dating etc, and was terrified of rejection. It's pretty normal for young men and I thank god the toxic internet communities that exploit and worsen this stuff didn't really exist in any meaningful way back then.

Whatever you do, do NOT listen to the countless men on the internet who want to give you advice about this stuff (and likely take some of your money at the same time if they can). Do NOT start seeing women as some alien species. Do NOT approach this with an attitude to trick, manipulate - don't start seeing this as a game. Do NOT fall into incel, PUA, manosphere etc. culture. I promise you this will only cement the problem, and women will become more distant to you than ever - in your mind, and very likely in reality as well. If you've already started down one of these paths, you need to stop, turn around, and walk back.

You're young. You will hopefully make plenty of new friends over the coming years. Hopefully some of those friends will have friends who are women. Talk to them normally, like you would any guy you'd just met. Don't try to impress them. They are people just like you, and not nearly as scary as they might seem. Try to relax and not worry about this so much. Like many other guys your age, you very likely have confidence and self esteem issues. Working on yourself and forgetting about this 'problem' can help there. Become proud of yourself on some level, without being arrogant. Do this for its own sake, not to "get girls".

No one here knows you so no one is gonna be able to diagnose the problem fully for you, everyone's just guessing. Don't put too much weight on anyone's guess.

Good luck.
/u/beansandcheese 📢
1 points
2 years ago
Yeah reflecting on it my friend groups have just been networks of men. I would be at risk of becoming some red pill incel but thankfully I've already formed and thought about my opinions on those types of issues and I couldn't be any further from what any of those weirdos believe.
/u/biscuitofeternalcrunch
2 points
2 years ago
That's good. Count yourself lucky on that one.

And yeah, that's the issue. Unless you're in top 1% of socially outgoing and confident people, we generally make friends through other friends. That's how I know virtually all my friends, male and female. Exceptions to this are mostly environmental - going to college, working with someone, doing some sort of hobby-based course/sport/class etc. with a group - and at your age, you should have lots of these experiences in front of you.

To an extent, the solution is to be open to these situations, but try not to care too much about the outcome. Nobody, including you I'm sure, wants to be friends with someone we can tell is desperate to become our friends. For whatever reason, we humans find this very offputting for the most part. So yeah, just try to chill on it. Be open, be friendly, but chill about it.
You should watch more Andrew Tate videos, become a alpha like DeSnake will help too.
/u/lostkitten
1 points
2 years ago
Best to become an Alpha like Alpha02... and we know how it ended
R U in Nicola Tesla club? :-D
/u/zerocool
1 points
2 years ago
"One of the things I've told men over and over and over and over is if you're being rejected by all the women that you approach, it's not the women!"
-Jordan Peterson
/u/luckytigerfag
1 points
2 years ago
lmao just become gay dumbass
you may never be a fuckboy but you can fuck boys!
/u/crystalrivers
1 points
2 years ago
Listen to some Ram Dass, Abraham Hicks, Thich Naht Hanh or someone of the like. Listen to people like Jordan Peterson. Maybe teachings by Neville Goddard. Or try the Silva Method. Go get your mind right. Something to flip your perspective/view of yourself and the world. You are in control of your life and what comes into it. You receive what you think you deserve. You attract what you harp on. I don't pick up that you think too highly of yourself. If that is the case, what makes you think someone would think otherwise. Would you date you? Confidence is a state of mind. CHANGE YOUR MINDSET & CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

You deserve a good loving girl. Best of luck.
/u/LydiaRQ
1 points
2 years ago
You need a woman's advice but then that's the catch. Do you call women bitches all the time? That would be a place to start then work your way up to getting advice from a lady.
/u/heavyweaponsguy
1 points
2 years ago
/u/beansandcheese you seem cool from first impression, your posts have come on my radar. I won't write about personal experiences on dread, and these things are cliche: confidence even if feigned will at least get you started (or at least work on girls not smarter than you) and a decent personality gets them the rest of the way. Having money helps too.

Stop being a faggot internet coomer, learn to be a man. The rest will fall into place.
/u/stoicfigures
1 points
2 years ago
i am so shocked to see a post like this on dread
this should be outlawed
/u/I3atbugs
1 points
2 years ago
HI! woman here. have you tried giving them free weed or some really cool rocks
/u/beansandcheese 📢
1 points
2 years ago
I haven't found any cool rocks yet. I only sell weed.
/u/cthulhuskittens
1 points
2 years ago
a) appearance does matter. anyone telling you otherwise is lying & probably laughing at you behind your back. are you overweight? do you smell? how's your breath? do your outfits look like you got dressed in the dark? you don't have to look like you stepped off a runway, but try to shower at least once a week & make sure you don't actively stink. if you look greasy, women will avoid you instinctively.
b) women are people. othering them, whether to degrade them or put them on a pedestal, is only going to alienate them further. talk to them like people. if you do have friends, as you say you do, you must know how to make conversation. do you have a sense of humor? women, like men, like to laugh (this does not mean you should "tell jokes," but if you have an amusing observation on a situation you happen to be in, don't be afraid to share it) (self-deprecating humor is ok in small doses but has its limits & can come off like reverse psychology. use extremely sparingly)
c) don't go into social situations feeling needy or desperate. women, like men, can smell desperation & the psychologically healthy ones don't want to be anywhere near it. (the damaged ones who are drawn to it are not the ones you want in your life, they might be interesting for a few days but their "quirkiness" will get old really fast & you won't be able to get rid of them). you say you're not mad about your 'bitchlessness' but clearly it bothers you or you wouldn't be posting this.
d) take the time to better yourself - if you don't have a fulfilling job, look for one; if you live in your parents' basement, get your own place; if you play video games all day, find your passion (i hate the word "hobby" & what it represents - most of us can't get paid for doing what we really love, but it's important to find time in life to do it anyway, & not reduce it to the status of a "hobby"). sane, stable women are drawn to men who have it together - who don't NEED them. pickup artists try to fake this by "negging" women, but this is really cringe & obvious & women pick up on it easily (unless they're dumb, & you don't want a dumb woman, do you?). if your circumstances are such that you can't quite get your shit together yet, at least educate yourself. take classes in a topic that interests you, read books, travel if you can afford it, have adventures, the possibilities are really endless, but ideally you'd have something to talk about besides sports or the shit you did in high school.

i guess everyone in your generation uses dating apps now, & i guess that works for hookups or one night stands if that is what you are looking for. never understood the point myself but then i'm old (not that old people can't use dating apps, i have a good friend, a woman, who's 60something & looks 35 who has been cutting quite a swath through young men on tinder. she loves it. i feel like a different species listening to her stories, but to each their own)