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I personally hate the phrase: "Money is not everything". Being homeless and broke will show you how invisible you become when you are on the low end if society. No one can save you but yourself and no one will be there for you because they do not have too.
That's... wrong and honestly just a shit post. I been homeless twice, others here on dread share that fate. Being homeless really shows you who your true friends are, who actually cares about you and not just your money. But there were and will be people that are there, willing to help and focus on turning shit around for you in your darkest moments. Willing to save your future where you maybe cant anymore..
Maybe but in some peoples lives (my own) being homeless will show you that sad truth. I am glad you have had people in your corner. But for those who have no one decisions must be made and not just a run of the mill "dont worry about it".
That is very true but It wasnt just friends it was family too, hell society just does not treat you well with no money. You are right my expirence is not for everyone. But what I am willing to bet is that it is a majority of situations. Its the main reason people are vendors.
Strip away money, status, or usefulness, and most vanish—not out of malice, but because love, like all human bonds, is transactional at its core. If there is no higher power watching, no divine justice balancing the scales, then the broke and forgotten are simply casualties of a species hardwired to value advantage over empathy. You are not unloved because you are bad—you are unloved because, in this bleak economy of attention, worth is measured in what you offer, not who you are. And once you're broke, you're nothing but a reminder of the abyss everyone’s trying to ignore.
Well said, I was lucky to have my mother and one good schizoid friend in my corner when I was down and out. It was really eye opening how fast the world moves.
I would love to trade in what I went through for extreme wealth. Yes it is true money does not solve all problems but the things you have to worry about day to day are much more acceptable.
That's sad.
I wouldn't. These experiences can teach and form you in a way nothing else ever could. However, it's up to you what you make out of them. You have more control and power over decisions in life than you think and sometimes bad decisions are easier.
Being in survival mode can teach you things but the stress is not worth the lesson. At least if I had the money I can manage problems alot better and get a better perspective on it as I would have at least one solution.
There is some truth to what you're saying, most people do help in your hard times for personal validation or satisfaction. Yet love is beyond money, if you make your persona, your character about money & materialism, if it is the only thing you display, then it is the only thing people can love you for.
I've experienced both sides of the spectrum from homeless to big figures, and then to losing a lot of money.
I've seen that the people who were with me before I had money, then I got money, and then their love faded away and transgressed into personal greed. When it dissipated, they dissipated with it too.
It's a tough balance to find, but most people won't carry your word, insight, and opinion seriously at all if you are broke. I'll say that.
Both to be honest, the big figures are never enough, and when you increase the caliber of your career, the deals you negotiate, then the problems might become just as impactful.
Yet of course, in certain instances, there is nothing more than the satisfaction you feel having the capability to solve a problem comfortably with ease.
Money isn't everything at all. Money buys comfortness, not happiness. Give some, save some, spend some. Have a budget. You will learn none of this in school and probably not from your parents either (Most parents are pretty tight lipped about finances to their children.)
And I've been homeless twice. It's not going to happen a third time though.
Money is a tool. It's used for the exchange of goods and services. Nothing more.
What an unfortunate time to see this post, this completely disregards people with horrible and fucked up circumstances like myself. Never once had I done drugs, never once had I done wrong, but here I am, in the modern world, getting kicked out by parents who don't give a shit about me as soon as they have the chance.
But you are right from as far as what I know. It hurts to hear sometimes, but some of the info you provided is genuine.
I was just in your situation, wandering the streets in the wintertime. You can do this and get through anything as the goal is to keep yourself warm and alive
Cheers!