Where to get monero nowdays? Are swap site like stealthheax.io save? : Monero | Torhoo darknet markets

Hey PPL!

I didn't need to get monero for a long time, but now i need to get some again. I was always using localmonero with little to no concern. Is there any similiar site which is actually trustworthy?

I have read about swap sites like trocardo and stealthhex.io but i have red mixing reviews sometimes people get scammed sometimes not which imho came down to the amount they wanted to swap...

Im not really sure what to do... i want to swap like 3k worth of ETH to Monero but have little trust in sites where ur support answers via telegramm :D Maybe u guys have some reassuring opinions for me or even better other saver options which i can take.

PS: If i should decide to use something like torcardo is it advisable to split the amount into three order or does this raise suspiscions in their eyes? I have read that they may sometimes do shotgun KYC in order to freeze funds:... Any one any experience with this sort of behaviour? Thanks in advance